absolutwillie

Tag: relationships

  • New

    staring at a full moon
    spilling over crashing waves
    spraying foam in shining eyes
    staring at a full moon
    – MOSSEL BAY, 27 NOV 2012

  • WHAT ARE WE WAITING FOR – DANNY ROSE

    [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnsIGjaafnc?fs=1]

    Uploaded by  on Mar 27, 2012
    “This is my marriage proposal video to the love of my life. I cant imagine anyone telling us we cannot get married! The song is available on iTunes and 100% of the profits will goto marriage equality. Please enjoy and share and comment!”

    http://itunes.apple.com/us/album/what-are-we-waiting-for-single/id512975897

  • Blitzkrieg: a holiday in retrospect

    The Lunar New Year.
    9 days off.
    Death in the family.
    Major surgeries scheduled for 3 family members.

    Time to go home.

    • Friday: Classes end, clean up. Finally got an answer to my marriage proposal: No.
    • Saturday: Packed ex’s belongings, departed for Hong Kong, then Johannesburg.
    • Sunday: Had a lovely brunch with friends at OR Tambo, flew to George, visited Grandpa’s ashes, cried when I sat down in his house and realized he’s passed through the veil. Family time.
    • Monday: Jetlag, NGO meeting, processed orders of business cards. Time with my folks.
    • Tuesday: Family time, office time, groceries, made chocolate desert, supper club in Groot Brak.
    • Wednesday: Dept. of Home Affairs, meeting with our attorney, quick visit with my uncle, dinner at Transkaroo.
    • Thursday: Family time, checked in with friends in Mosselbaai.
    • Friday: Meeting with NGO affiliates, farewell hugs, dinner with Gran, pack for the return flight.
    • Saturday: George airport closed due to adverse weather conditions, special time with Dad, missed flight to Hong Kong, Special time with Jonathan in Johannesburg.
    • Sunday: Checked in early, missed a wedding in Kaohsiung, relaxed in The D Lounge at OR Tambo, boarding for Hong Kong in 40 minutes.

    Pulling myself towards myself.

    Taiwan, ready or not, here I come!

  • World AIDS Day 2010 – The Ribbon/Cucumber Timelapse

    [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ImFwKYxkzh8?fs=1]
    Be safe.

  • "It Gets Better" — Love, Pixar

    [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4a4MR8oI_B8?fs=1]

  • True Colors: it gets better

    [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KnYa9R4N-8c?version=3]
    turn up the volume
    and view this in full screen
    thank you to the Gay Men’s Chorus of LA!

  • IDAHO 2010 – the great, global kiss-in

    [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFFqeeNwOhI&hl=en_GB&fs=1&&w=320&h=265]

  • oh my aching heart

    You Belong With Me – Gay Version with Voice

    I just love little tidbits like these, that tug on my heart-strings and tear ducts – and remind me I’m human.

  • prayer request

    i know this isn’t really what anyone wants to read so close to the festive season, but if you have the inclination, please spare a thought or two:
    for my old friend Leon, who has lost the battle against cancer and can now only wait…
    for Love to grow and heal where me and Peter so desperately need it, and
    for our friends and families that have their own journeying and healing to go through.

    and remember – live life fully and live life now.
    tomorrow… well, tomorrow is not a promise we can keep.

  • reprise: Adam Lambert "Time For Miracles"

    [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=toR6e061hWY&hl=en_US&fs=1&&w=320&h=265]

    It’s late at night and I can’t sleep
    Missing you just runs too deep
    Oh I can’t breathe thinking of your smile
    Every kiss I can’t forget
    This aching heart ain’t broken yet
    Oh God I wish I could make you see
    Cause I know this flame isn’t dying
    So nothing can stop me from trying
    Baby you know that
    Maybe it’s time for miracles
    Cause I ain’t giving up on love
    You know that
    Maybe it’s time for miracles
    Cause I ain’t giving up on love
    No I ain’t giving up on us
    I just want to be with you
    Cuz living is so hard to do
    When all I know is trapped inside your eyes
    The future I cannot forget
    This aching heart ain’t broken yet
    Oh God I wish I could make you see
    Cuz I know this flame isn’t dying
    So nothing can stop me from trying
    Baby you know that
    Maybe it’s time for miracles
    Cuz I ain’t giving up on love
    You know that
    Maybe it’s time for miracles
    Cause I ain’t giving up on love
    No I ain’t giving up on us
    Baby can you feel it (comin’)
    Yu know I can hear it (here in my soul)
    Baby when you feel me feeling you
    You know it’s time