Category: Personal

  • Zulu love letter assignment (Diamanté poem): Genealogy

                                                                               birth
                                                                          wet, sacred
                                                            expanding, stretching, reaching
                                           boy (who is) son (who is) brother (who becomes) man

                                                      man                            graduate, caregiver, activist, leader
                                                 naive, bright                             burning healing hoping
                                       reading, thinking, playing                         fierce and loyal
                                 graduate, logician, soldier, hermit                         woman

                              iron and leather, envelope and shield                         wife
                                    teaching, showing, carrying                           soft and fragile
                                             classic strong                          enlightening, strengthening, loving
                                                  husband                         the earth, his hearth, crystal and flower
                                           gentle, protective                        life-giving, defending, guiding
                                  reviving, supporting, believing                 beautiful though embattled
                              provider, champion, guardian, father                        mother

                                                  firstborn                              rebel princess, survivor, genius
                                           fierce but hidden                             singing, laughing, crying
                                       striving, shining, lying                             depressed, blessed

                                    poet, writer, leader, faggot                                    sister

  • Quicky: Oh hi!

    Oooooh I’m terrible at keeping to any semblance of a blogging schedule… I’ll try and refocus soon, but I’ve got a bucketload (make that 5 bucketloads… huge, nay enormous ones) of work to get through in the next couple of weeks.

    B.Ed (Hons) is going well. Better once I’ve managed to hand everything in on time.

    Gigs at the University are paying the rent but taking up a lot of time. Bitten of just a cheekful more than I can chew methinks. But such is life.

    Finally getting that tooth crowned!

    Social life = academics

    Love life = 0

    Later!
    W

  • [Reblog] 6 Things You Can Do Before Breakfast to Make Your Day a Success

    By Gurbaksh Chahal (Chairman & CEO at RadiumOne)
    Good morning!
    I mean it. Have a good start to your day and you’ll greatly enhance your chances of having a successful day, every day. The discipline of an early bird will manifest itself in many ways, or as Benjamin Franklin put it way back in the 1700’s, “Early to bed and early to rise makes a man healthy, wealthy and wise.”
    The saying is just as true today as it was then and many of the most accomplished people on the planet have been shown to be early risers. But it’s not just a matter of getting up early that counts; what really counts is what you do with that extra time while the world at large is still slumbering. (Note: getting up early shouldn’t come at the expense of getting enough sleep).
    Knowing how to leverage your time before breakfast will undoubtedly have a positive and productive outcome. So, here are six habits that those successful early risers employ.
    Make a Fresh Start. This is actually something you should do way before breakfast—in fact, it’s best to do it the night before. Remove the clutter of yesterday both mentally and physically. Clean up your ‘to do’ list. Erase from the list the tasks you have accomplished and start a new list for the new day. Take a look at your desk before you leave the office (even if your office is at home). If papers and files are scattered haphazardly all over it, is that what you want to greet you at the start the day? Not a welcoming sight and not one likely to make you feel enthusiastic about any project. So clean that up, too.
    Get Physical. Working out first thing in the morning will give you a burst of energy that lasts for hours. It’s a habit you should try hard to acquire and you can choose what works for you—a brisk walk or jog; hitting the gym; whatever. People who exercise regularly experience a positive boost in mood and are generally better off when dealing with tough decisions life throws at you. That’s because when you exercise your body releases “feel good” chemicals called endorphins that lead to a positive and energizing outlook on life. A byproduct of regular physical activity is improved self-esteem.
    Take Time to Think. This might be the only quiet time of the day, your only chance to be alone and able to seriously reflect on everything that’s happening in your life. It’s your opportunity before the hurly-burly of the “work day” to let your mind wander and do some big picture thinking. You’ll be surprised how establishing quiet time like this to review where your business or career is heading can spark all kinds of breakthroughs.
    Focus on Today. Plan your day ahead. Visualize the success you are going to enjoy. But first shake off any hangover from the day before. Don’t carry forward any stresses or aggravations. Wipe the slate clean and make a new beginning. If you need to take corrective action of any kind make sure that you do so with the right attitude for a new day. That might mean making a tough decision, setting the record straight with someone or maybe apologizing to someone. Whatever it is, get it out of the way.
    Wake up Slowly. During sleep your brain is extraordinarily active filtering and processing the events of the day before. But when you’re waking fresh in the morning and still half asleep your mind—in this relaxed state—can often deliver creative solutions. Try it and see. With a little practice who knows what you will come up with? Sometimes, our dreams are where we store our best ideas.
    Earlier is better. Whatever your current schedule try to get up even earlier. Even if it’s just 15 minutes. And spend that time wisely. Put into effect any of the tips provided above. If you can make it 30 minutes earlier, so much the better. You can’t buy time but you can give yourself a gift of time. Time is precious, so make the most of it. Waking up, jumping in and out of the shower, grabbing a coffee and rushing out the door sets the wrong tone for the day.
    Energy is everything. Start with positivity, and that will set the stage for the rest of your day – no matter what problems are thrown at you.
    If you want to conquer this world, do it only when you’re at your best.
  • Thoughts before coffee

    What would it be like if all our fingers were opposable thumbs?

  • O.M.W. You guys!

    It’s October already! Where the heck did the last two weeks go? I feel as if I’ve been done in somehow… “Wronged” would be too strong a word, really. Except when we’re talking about the mosquitos that moved in a couple of hours ago!

    Where did that come from?
    (Is it in my contract? I want to see my contract.)
    *scratch-scratch-scr… Nnnnnooooooooooooo!*
    Bah.
                        (Did I take my meds?)
  • Let’s revisit that last heading…

    … aaaaand Murphy’s Law strikes again.

    My iMac crashed. Again. After being fixed by an authorized (read: expensive) Apple technician.

    So I took it to the shop. Again. Trying not to screech like a wounded banshee.

    They better not charge me (again).
  • Friday Vlogsperimentation

    Still learning. Still making mistakes. Still having fun!
    [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=89cSfjAvOzo?version=3&f=user_uploads&c=google-webdrive-0&app=youtube_gdata&w=320&h=266]
    Byeee!!!
  • Saturday Fun-day tester

    An experiment in vlogging:
    [youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iImS2Rl443w]

  • Help me finish my PGCE!

    As many of you know, I’m working hard to complete my Postgraduate Certificate in Education this year. Following various jobs, projects and labor – I had managed to save up enough funds to pay for tuition. Woohoo!!! 

    But I didn’t count on the “additional” expenses (accommodation, insurance, groceries and fuel) – which have now eaten through two thirds of my tuition money. At this rate, I’ll be broke and homeless by April. With the PGCE program being such an intensive, one year program of full-time study, getting a “day job” didn’t work out. Successfully completing this program leaves little time for sleep, and no time for distractions like romance or employment.

    Out of pure desperation, and with a few moments to spare on this Sunday, I’ve decided to go for the only option left to me: to just ask for help.

    Please help.

    Contact me through the comment section (moderated) for details, or support my GoFundMe page:


    Thank you!